Marshall B. Rosenberg
Biography
Marshall B. Rosenberg (1934-2015) was an American psychologist, mediator, author, and teacher best known as the creator of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). Born in Canton, Ohio, and raised in Detroit, his early experiences with violence and prejudice significantly shaped his life's mission to understand and resolve conflict. He earned his Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in 1961. Initially a practicing clinical psychologist, Rosenberg eventually dedicated his efforts to developing and sharing NVC globally. In 1984, he founded the Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC), an international non-profit organization. Through numerous workshops and training sessions, he taught NVC principles in diverse settings, from war-torn regions to schools and corporations, advocating for empathy, understanding human needs, and expressing oneself without judgment. His seminal work, "Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life," has been translated into many languages, inspiring millions worldwide to transform their communication and relationships.
Selected Thoughts
«When we are able to see the other person's needs, we are able to get beyond the judgment and begin to connect with them.»
«Empathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing. Instead of offering empathy, we often have a strong urge to give advice or reassurance and to explain our own position or feeling. Empathy, however, simply asks us to be present and connect.»
«Every criticism, judgment, diagnosis, and interpretation is the expression of an unmet need.»
Writing Style
Rosenberg's writing style is highly practical, accessible, and empathetic, designed to educate and inspire readers to adopt new communication patterns. He frequently uses clear explanations, illustrative anecdotes, and fictional dialogues to demonstrate NVC principles in action. His tone is compassionate, direct, and instructional, aiming to demystify complex psychological concepts and provide actionable tools for improving interpersonal relationships and resolving conflicts peacefully.